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after all this time, always. I would rather spend one lifetime with you, then face all the ages of this world alone. You're all I need. I love you and I like you.

Taking a photo of your life that feels so real to you that your memory floods with the sound of your partner's laugh and the scent of their shampoo each time you look at it. 

Something that just makes you want to be there. Back in a time when your first dog would get zoomies in your cramped apartment or when your grandma could still wrap you in her arms, ending each hug with that little wink.

I capture your life knowing that one day you will see your photographs and life will look immeasurably different than it does now. That these photos are your legacy of all the ones you've loved and the ones who have loved you. 

You know what I do actually care about though?

I don’t care about adding some trend to my own body of work and I solemnly swear that I don’t give a sh*t about Instagram

Okay, I'm Gonna Cut To The Chase And Be Real With You

Come As You Are,
And I'll Take Care Of The Rest

Making these memories and capturing them in a way that is honest and real is a collaborative process. I want to get to know you so that I can learn what is important to you and what life looks like for you right now. My promise to you is to create a space where you feel seen and comfortable to be your incredible self.

I create a supportive experience where you can rest easy knowing I've already planned ahead for allllll the things. I think through every "what if" and "what about"  and "oh sh*t" scenario so you don't have to. Go ahead– you can put your feet up and your worries down. I've got you.


this is a partnership

Start the process by filling out my contact form and telling me a little bit about you and what you envision for your couples session, wedding, or elopement!

I will literally scream with joy when your inquiry hits my inbox!

NEXT, i'll send you my full pricing guide, some sample galleries, and WE'LL SCHEDULE A TIME FOR THE THREE OF US TO CHAT.

on our call we'll get to know each other a bit, talk through any questions, and discuss details for your couples session, WEDDING, or ELOPEMENT (AND PROBABLY A LOT ABOUT ANY PETS YOU HAVE LET'S BE REAL!!).

to make this thing official, I'LL SEND YOU a CONTRACT & INVOICE. ONCE YOU'VE BOTH SIGNED THE CONTRACT AND PAID THE 50% NONREFUNDABLE RETAINER, YOU'LL BE OFFICIALLY BOOKED!!

Between booking and your date, WE'll get to know each other through a few planning chats. I love being a resource for you during this time and learning all about your vision & goals for your wedding, elopement, or couples session!

I'll also send you my couples questionnaire, which will help me get to know you two as a couple. This questionnaire is the heart and soul of everything i do and a huge part of my process!

It’s happening! the day we've been waiting for is here! Soak up all the sweet memories and enjoy this time together to the max. I'll be there to capture every second of it all.

"From the moment we spoke I knew she would be perfect to capture our special day. She was kind, focused on important details we wanted, listened, and most of all cared. She cared what we wanted and how. She was amazing and I am truly lucky we found her! We are from Arizona and it was a spur of the moment eloping. Thank you for everything Brittany!!"

Chrystal + Ron

RAVING  REVIEWS

"She was kind, focused on important details, listened, and most of all cared"

- chrystal & ron -

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